There is a question that is quite important when you decide to get married, that is whether you want to be a wife or you want to have a husband? Just think for a moment, in which your choice! Because the answer you bring a big enough impact for the life of your wedding.
You already know your answer?
If you answered that you want to have a husband, then actually you can marry anyone. "What is important to have a husband!". However, we reject some of the men because we do not feel clicks with them. Marriage really is not just to have a husband, but about how we, the women, being a wife to husband, a good wife.
If we have a noble purpose, namely to be a good wife, then it is certain that we will be a happy wife too. Definitely! We will be happy when we make others (especially our partners) happy.
As we all know, that strong men (and also weak) in the eyes (visual), while the strong woman (and weak as well) in the mouth or tongue, in the sense that whatever we say has a strong impact for our partners.
Surveys show that women speak far more than men every day. However, it is time for us women to investigate ourselves, whether the words that we say it was built or even weaken it and undermine the spirit of others, especially our husbands.
Honor your husband with our words! Remember that praise is long remembered by the men. For men the award is the main thing, such as concern for women. Therefore, if you want to get special attention from your partner, then say good things and positive.
If it appears the conditions where we do not know what we have to say, then shut up .... Sometimes just because it's too much talk problems arise. A wise woman knows when to be silent, when to speak, when to praise, when to criticize.
In criticizing anything, there is virtually a way that 'safe'. For the men / husbands can more easily accept criticism, then start the conversation with the words 'I feel'. Example:
Wrong: 'Dad, why do you often ignore me? "
The truth: "Dad, these days if papa mama feel a little less attention to the same mama. Mama knew if Dad is busy. Today is papa come home quickly, yes, mama papa masakin favorite food. Not miss the same Mama papa."
That is just one example. In essence, put your criticism amid the sweet words / compliments. It can prevent your husband from feeling threatened against your criticism.
Say what you feel and think the right way and right time. Words as true whatever remains difficult to be accepted by men if we present it in the wrong way. Therefore, keep your tongue!
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